Thursday, June 19, 2014

If I could save time in a bottle...


Hi Folks!
Can I be cliché for a moment and say “where has this year gone?”  

Seriously, I can’t figure it out. I was happily sitting on my couch last year at this time watching Rachel Ray with a baby on my boob. Now somehow my little baby is considered a toddler?? When did that happen? Did you know the BabyCenter app ends after 1 year? Every day I would get all kinds of updates and milestones to look for, etc. Then the kid turns one and the app just goes “Good luck, you’re on your own now.” I feel some abandoning issues coming on.
Life with a toddler is a whole new ball game. He isn’t completely walking on his own yet but he is ALL OVER THE PLACE! I need to move soon, our apartment feels too small these days. He has more clothes than I know what to do with but somehow manages to grow out of them before my wallet can replenish itself. And the toys, don’t get me started on the toys.

He is such a little hoot and a joy to watch grow. It’s a bittersweet process since part of me wants him to be a squishy little newborn again and the other part wants to see him grow & learn.
Things he can do currently=Fast crawler, claps, waves bye bye (said it once!), says "Mama" and "Dada", dances, gives high fives, stands on his own, crusies furniture with ease. Took about 9 steps on his own and throws tantrums among many other things. He is also growing up bilingual so more words probably won't come along for a little while longer.
We had his 1 year doctor’s appointment. He is currently at 31inches and 25lbs, thus leaving him in about the 85 percentile for both height and weight for his age.

Isn’t he cute? I still cannot stop staring at him, especially when he is asleep in my arms. His smell is still as intoxicating as ever. I’m not looking forward to the unpleasant odors puberty will most undoubtedly bring.
 

Some more pics from the birthday party (I'm a big nerd, having a boy suits me lol)
The Cakes!


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The Birthday Boy!
If any of you are wondering what the future may bring, DH and I have not fully decided what we would like. We know we would like more children and close in age is a plus however I have not reverted to my old ways yet. Perhaps I have accepted that I’m ok if it’s just Henry. We are not preventing at this point yet I am NOT tracking anything, timing anything or taking anything. I believe that is called actively trying to conceive (ATTC). I don’t know if I will do that again. I get a touch of baby fever from time to time but it’s not like before. I will be honest with you, I like this state of calmness I’m under. There were times when we were ATTC that I just felt angry all the time. I don’t know how women who go through infertility for years do it. Looking back now, 15 months wasn’t too long of a time (even though it felt like an eternity).  I guess I’m just going to take things as naturally as possible.
One last side note, my DH has finished his Masters in teaching and has passed his certification (Yay!) I’m so proud and excited for this next stage in his life. He is an amazing husband, friend and father. Henry and I are so lucky to have him!
He is a pic of us if you were curious as to the genetic pool Henry has going on J
I love this guy right here!
 
Happily Quacking on,
~JD
 
 

 

4 comments:

  1. OMG, I LOVE his party! That cake is awesome! So happy for you guys :-)

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    1. Thank you! I wish I was crafty enough to say I made them but alas, I just picked out a good picture lol.

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  2. So glad to see an update. Such a big and CUTE boy! Wow times flies. It's actually refreshing to hear your take on the idea of #2 as well. We've always said we wanted to try again, and ASAP, but the further along I get in this pregnancy, the more I'm falling in love with the one growing inside of there and YES it sure is nice to not be tracking/trying/in treatment. A whole different state of mind. It would be really great if we never had to go back to that dark place again. I so get that feeling!

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    1. I know, I'm so bad with the updating. I wish I knew how those other moms with Blogs do it? if they can't why can't I? lol. Emily I have loved so much catching up with your blog. You have no idea how happy I am for you! That beautiful baby boy is going to be here any minute and everything that once consumed your life is going to flip upside down. I wish you the best delivery and very healthy and happy little guy :)

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